It’s an interesting dilemma, the day ones daughter decides that she wants some input into the decoration of her own room.
When you feel that you have a distinct interior style of your own – mine being English country house chic, the idea of relinquishing all authority, and letting a thirteen year old have a free reign over the decor of even one room is a scary prospect!
I can remember designing my children’s nurseries, and choosing vintage and retro items so carefully. Everything was perfectly thought out and co-ordinated in pastels and cream. A bit of faded chintzy floral, for the girls and muted pastel coloured spots or stripes for my son, all tied together with pastel chippy painted furniture and a few dark wood family heirlooms thrown in. Their rooms conveyed a sense of vintage nostalgia and harped back to a fantasy past where childhood was quainter, and more innocent, and when girls wore smocked dresses and boys wore shorts until their 16th birthday – or so I imagined in my little fantasy bubble!!
|The Girls Original Bedroom|
Decorating an infants bedroom is one of the most exciting things to focus on during the loooooong wait for baby to arrive – and I relished the job. Then for pretty much a decade, and with three children, the interior choices remained very much under my domain, with the occasional addition of a requested riding hat or rosette, a few pictures of foxes when one of the twins went through a fox obsession, and ‘tastefully’ vintage classic car memorabilia for my son – which thankfully was all in keeping with the overall aesthetic of the house.
I knew that one day the time would come when I would be hiding my nail varnishes, lipsticks and even my best shoes from my tweenie girls, but for some reason, it hadn’t occurred to me that I would be dealing with daughters who had strong ideas on interiors, and wanted to stamp their own identity on their surroundings…I wonder where they got that from…?
…Yet here we are, currently in the midst of organising and planning one of the girls’ bedrooms at her request. The YouTube generation has brought with it a distinctly modern ‘white studio’ look, full of neutrals and metalics, and a young girls bedroom must apparently now fulfil the multi functions of film location as well as chic teenage hangout, office/editing suite and luxe sleepover quarters… The look, apparently, must be light, airy and slick with a hint of glamour, and despite the fact that I don’t tend to do ‘slick’ – I’m rather more of a lived in and worn sorta gal – this is the look that my daughter aspires to, and at least she’s not asking for black walls and posters of Black Sabbath or Iron Maiden!
Rather than clash heads, we have reached a middle compromise. We jokingly call it ‘Studio Vintage’ – although I prefer the idea of Barbarella meets Jane Austen! There will be lots of white, cream and neutral, with a bit of chippy paint (hurrah) – in white or cream – (pink NO longer allowed Mummy!) – with metallic accents, which can be changed and moved around as tastes change. It’s still a work in progress, and is actually quite an exciting project for us to embark on together.
So far there have yet to be too many disagreements. My daughter has seen a metal bed in a copper finish, based on an old fashioned hospital bed shape, while I would prefer for her to have a vintage, white painted upholstered French bed, however, we are both agreed on a white chandelier, and a painted white French armoire wardrobe.
Made from recycled materials and a duck feather pad, It works because it adds some much need texture and softness to the flat background of neutral paint and ‘harder’ metallic accessories. It is also quirkily individual enough, that my daughter feels it can be unique to her own more modern style… (what she doesn’t realise is that I’ve been trying it out around the house, because I love its huggable, ‘squeeze me’ tactile appeal! )
Happy & Coare an up and coming homeware and furniture company that are new to me, which again appeals to the ‘cool’ factor for my daughter, although, we are both attracted to the fact that as well as providing extremely stylish products, they are also a company that believe businesses should be socially responsible. So for each product they sell, 10% of their profits are invested into their Happy & Co Farm in Cambodia. This provides much-needed jobs for the young men and women, as well as fresh fruit and vegetables for the whole community. What’s not to love – shopping while giving something back – such a perfect combination.
I also had a typical ‘Mummy’ response to the beautiful packaging that our cushion was sent in. It came in it’s own hardwearing cotton bag drawstring bag, with the stylish Happy & Co. logo, which will serve perfectly as a laundry bag for my daughters newly finished room…although I’m sure that she may have a few rather more ‘youthful’ ideas for it!
Of course, there’s still lots to do, paint and finish, but I think that we have a good framework to work with, and this little corner is a ‘living mood board’ for what’s to come. What’s particularly nice is that Happy & Co. represents a wonderful medium where this mother and Daughter can meet in the middle and enjoy an aesthetic that covers both our style needs…and what could be Happier than that!
Until Next Time,
Disclaimer: This post was written in collaboration with Happy & Co. all words, opinions and views expressed are my own.